• $1,200 or 3 monthly payments of $400

Beyond Jealousy

  • Starts May 27

Get out of your own way so you can experience love, inner peace, compersion, and security in your open relationships.
That sensation of the floor dropping out from under you, the world spinning around you, your vision closing in tightly and going dark as jealousy gets its grip on you. Adrenaline starts flooding your body in preparation to save you from imminent death and you feel like your whole world is crumbling around you.

The primal system that is designed to keep you alive when a predator is chasing you or your children are in danger doesn't know the difference between a lion chasing you and seeing your partner kiss another person. It all feels like a threat to your immediate safety and your survival instincts kick into gear. This is perfect if you are actually being chased by a lion, but not so wonderful when you are trying to navigate jealousy in your relationship.

Let’s dive deep into the jealousy and insecurities that are keeping you awake at night, making your head spin so you can’t focus at work, and no matter how hard you try you can’t enjoy your time with your partner without some issue popping up. 


You want to feel loved, desired, and at peace instead of mistrusting, doubtful, and suspicious.


You’re in a tough spot, battling against jealousy, constant comparison, guilt, and worry


It's overwhelming, and it feels like there's a huge gap between where you are now and where you want to be - a place of freedom, excitement, and fulfillment.

BUT HERE'S THE THING: BRIDGING THAT GAP IS POSSIBLE, AND IT STARTS WITH CULTIVATING A TRUSTING RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF. 


Imagine how delicious it would feel to truly believe in yourself, to trust your decisions, and to have faith in your own abilities. This kind of self-love and self-trust can bring about deep, deep healing at the root of your issues.


And when you heal, when you free yourself from those heavy burdens, you'll find that your mental bandwidth expands. 


SUDDENLY, THERE'S SPACE FOR ALL THE BEAUTIFUL EXPERIENCES AND OPPORTUNITIES THAT LIFE HAS TO OFFER. 


You can chase your dreams with clarity and confidence, without the weight of comparison or guilt holding you back.


Working through your jealousy gives you the opportunity to see what you need and desire and shines a light on the pathway to manifest your best life.


In 8 weeks I’m walking you through the exact tools I used to go from crying every single day because I felt like my life was falling apart and my mind was spinning out of control to having three loving partners and a handful of sexy admirers, a successful business, and happy kids.


An intensive deep dive into your jealousy and insecurities so that you can sleep at night, focus at work, enjoy your time with your partner, feel loved and desired instead of suspicious, doubtful, and mistrusting.

JEALOUSY ISN'T THE REAL PROBLEM, IT'S JUST AN EMOTION. 


Similar to happiness, sadness, anger, joy, fear....it's an emotion we feel in response to stimuli. But it's been given a bad rap because it's super uncomfortable and people often behave terribly because of that discomfort. Plus there's mountains of media telling you that if you aren’t jealous then you aren’t in love and that’s BS!

Jealousy is an emotion, like all other emotions, it will pass and when it does then you can dig into what's behind it. But while you are in the center of it, accept it and give it room to move through your body without taking any actions that you'll have to clean up later.

This is exactly what I help my clients do inside Beyond Jealousy: Conquering Jealousy in Consensual Non-Monogamy, my 8-week group program that teaches you how to get out of your own way so you can experience love, inner peace, compersion, and security in your open relationships. group coaching combined with community support will give you the tools and healing you need to move out of the jealous meltdowns so that you can feel the love again.

Every giant step forward I've made in my relationships is not because of some magical bean (or book) that solved all my issues. It's when I made the mental decision (not from fear) that I was getting what I wanted, and I would not suffer any longer.

In this 8-week intensive coaching program you'll learn...

You'll Learn...

✔️ Unraveling the Roots of Jealousy: Discover the specific sources of your jealousy and arm yourself with effective tools to overcome it. Imagine a life filled with peace, security, and a rekindled, vibrant connection with your partners.

✔️ Embracing Emotional Harmony: Learn how to make peace with your emotions, preventing them from overwhelming you. We'll guide you through techniques to end repetitive arguments and conflicts, paving the way for deeper love, connection, joy, and a renewed sense of freedom in your relationships.

✔️ Mastering Boundaries with Confidence: Gain clarity on setting and maintaining boundaries. Learn to distinguish between genuine concerns and unhelpful fears, empowering you to manage jealousy intelligently and nurture a healthier, more secure relationship dynamic.

✔️ Elevating Communication in Relationships: Transform the way you communicate, moving beyond recurring disputes to a place of profound connection and harmony. We'll show you how to foster an environment of openness and understanding, aligning you and your partners in every aspect of your relationship.

✔️ Exclusive Access to Transformative Resources: Enhance your journey with our specially curated audio meditations, breathwork exercises, and journal prompts. These proven tools are designed to accelerate your progress, guiding you towards the fulfilling and exciting ENM relationships you've always desired.

What's Inside This Transformative Journey? Mastering Jealousy and Embracing Empowerment!

Get ready to go hard on self-discovery, growth, and empowerment. This program is meticulously designed to guide you beyond the challenges of jealousy, leading you to a place of inner strength and harmonious relationships. Check out the features that make this journey not just transformative, but life-changing!

➡️ 8 Weeks of Interactive Group Sessions: Join us for powerful video calls where you'll connect with others navigating non-monogamy. Share your experiences, learn from different perspectives, and build a supportive network. In this safe space, we'll tackle the complexities of jealousy and celebrate each step towards emotional freedom. PLUS all the calls are recorded for you to refer back to as you need.💬🤝

➡️ Insightful Lessons on Navigating Jealousy: Go deep in self-discovery with lessons designed to empower you in your relationships. Uncover effective strategies for managing jealousy, enhancing communication, and setting healthy boundaries. Experience the transformation from uncertainty to a place of strength and inner peace. 💖🔍

➡️ Transformative Somatic Healing Practices: Address the physical embodiment of jealousy and emotional blocks through our somatic healing sessions. Learn to release deep-seated emotions, embracing joy and confidence in your personal and relationship growth. Experience the liberating shift from emotional burden to a vibrant, authentic self. 💆‍♀️✨

➡️ Dedicated Community Support: Connect with a community of folks who truly understand your journey. In our private group, find a haven for sharing, learning, and mutual support. This network of understanding peers is invaluable for encouragement, advice, and shared experiences on the path to conquering jealousy. 🤗🌟

Testimonials

 
Ellecia has a deep well of lived experience that is invaluable for couples thinking of opening up their relationship. No matter what we brought to session, Ellecia totally got what was coming up for each of us and helped us understand each other's experiences on a deeper level. She also gave us simple, super-effective tools to help us build trust, better communicate, and to regulate our nervous systems when intense emotions arose. Finally, her light-hearted and joyous presence made it so we actually wanted to do the practices and show up for sessions! 

Ann H.

Ellecia is an incredibly talented, intuitive, and sincere coach. From start to finish, she challenged us to dig deep, connecting to and understanding our inner selves. Her uplifting, positive, and fun personality makes her easy to open up to, and the lessons and tools she uses have taken our communication to the next level. As a result, we are living the out of the box relationship of our dreams. Much love!
-          Aaron C.



Aaron Chaffee

I worked with Ellecia as I was going through a difficult time of life, struggling to truly find my inner self as a Dominant Male in a way that was truly authentic to who and what I was. She was very warm and understanding, and really helped me weed through so much life programming I didn’t realize was impacting how I wanted to live my life. Through her exercises and talks, I was able to really dig deep within myself and reclaim my identity. While we as people are always a work in progress, I would never have been able to redefine what my energy would be without her assistance. Definitely recommend, on a scale of 1-10, she’s at least a 12!

Corey

I learned to not push past my own boundaries, but to feel into what feels aligned for me. To slow down and to feel more comfortable in the uncertain. To recognize that there's not an end destination but relationships are fluid and to learn how to build safety in that fluidity. 

ANON Conquering Jealousy Client

She taught me so much about myself. Reassured me when the whole world around me felt shaky. She helped me sit across from my husband and gaze into him for a long long time, and that was the most exquisite feeling. We found our way back to our center and Ellecia Paine was equally our guide, friend and coach. Please call her. It will improve your relationships.

Jennie

I  did 6 weeks of relationship coaching with Ellecia Paine earlier this year.  It was amazing. She really helped me understand the origins of a lot of my negative thoughts around relationships and heal some deep wounds. The work  empowered me to love myself, know that I am enough, and step into the qualities that allowed me to pursue the meaningful romantic relationships that I’ve so deeply desired for so long. I cannot possibly recommend her highly enough to express my gratitude for the work she led me through ❤️

Jessica L.

THIS IS FOR YOU IF YOU'RE ETHICALLY NON-MONOGAMOUS, POLYAMOROUS, IN AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP, A SWINGER, OR WANTING TO INTENTIONALLY CREATE RELATIONSHIPS THAT DON’T LOOK LIKE THE STANDARD COMPULSORY MONOGAMY.

Frequently asked questions

You’ve got questions. We’ve got answers.

How long is the program and what does it involve?

Features:
- 8 weeks of transformative group video calls, where you'll connect and grow with like-minded people on a similar journey.
- Engaging lessons that will guide you through the intricacies of non-monogamous relationships, helping you navigate challenges with confidence.
- Somatic healing sessions designed to help you release emotional blocks, heal past wounds, and cultivate a deeper connection with your emotions.
- A supportive community (private Facebook group) where you can share experiences, ask questions, and receive invaluable support and encouragement.

Bonuses:
- Exclusive access to bonus materials that will further enhance your journey, including ebooks, worksheets, and guided meditations.
- Surprise bonuses that will delight and inspire you along the way, because who doesn't love a little extra magic?

Price: $1200

When are the calls and do I have to be on every one?

Great question! Our group coaching calls for Beyond Jealousy are scheduled every Wednesday starting May 27th, 2026 from 11:30 AM PST. I understand that life can get pretty busy, so don't worry if you can't make it to every single call. I've got you covered!

Each call will be recorded and uploaded to our platform, Podia. That means you can catch up on any calls you miss at a time that works best for you. We want to make sure you have the flexibility to fit this program into your unique schedule.

Of course, we highly encourage you to attend the live calls whenever possible. Not only will you get the chance to engage with our amazing community in real-time, but you'll also benefit from the collective energy and support of the group. 

But hey, life happens, and we get it! Whether you tune in live or catch up later, we'll make sure you have access to all the knowledge, insights, and transformative moments that happen during our calls.

So, don't sweat it if you can't make every single call. We're here to support you every step of the way, no matter how you choose to participate!

If you have any other questions or concerns, feel free to reach out. I'm here for you!

How does the Beyond Jealousy program address the unique challenges faced by non-monogamous folks?

I'm excited to share how Beyond Jealousy is expertly crafted to address the specific challenges you encounter in non-monogamous relationships. Let's delve into the details.

Firstly, we tackle the issue of comparison. In the realm of non-monogamy, it's easy to fall into the trap of comparing your relationships or experiences with others. Beyond Jealousy equips you with the tools and mindset to move past these comparisons. Over our 8-week journey together, we'll work on strategies to celebrate your unique path and appreciate the individuality of your relationships, helping you realize that your journey is incomparable and truly special.

Then, we focus on building confidence. Feeling secure, confident, and valued is crucial in non-monogamous dynamics. This program acts as a nurturing space to bolster your self-assurance. We delve into self-love practices and confidence-building techniques, guiding you to embrace your inner strength. Through somatic healing, interactive group sessions, and insightful lessons, you'll emerge feeling empowered and self-assured, ready to navigate your relationships with poise and confidence.

But that's not all. Beyond Jealousy is more than a program – it's a community. You'll join a network of incredible individuals who understand and share your journey. This community offers unwavering support, shared wisdom, and a sense of belonging. It's like having a circle of allies, each cheering for your success and providing support whenever needed.

In summary, Beyond Jealousy is here to guide you through the nuances of non-monogamous relationships, helping you overcome challenges like comparison and insecurity while fostering a sense of community and support. Ready to embark on this transformative adventure and embrace the beautiful complexity of your relationships? Join us, and let's journey together!

If you have more questions or need guidance, don't hesitate to reach out. I'm here to walk you through the empowering experience that Beyond Jealousy offers!


Is there a money-back guarantee if I don't feel satisfied with the results of Beyond Jealousy?

I completely understand that committing to a coaching program like Beyond Jealousy is a significant step, and you want to be sure that your investment is truly worthwhile. Let's discuss our money-back guarantee!

At Beyond Jealousy, we are dedicated to your journey through understanding and managing jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. We stand behind the transformative potential of our program. If, after fully engaging with the 8-week course, you feel that you haven't experienced any of the growth or change you were seeking, we offer a money-back guarantee. Yes, you heard that right – your well-being and satisfaction are our top priorities!

Here's the process: If you have concerns, simply get in touch with our supportive team within 30 days after completing the program. We'll arrange a conversation to understand your experience and assess your eligibility for a refund. Our goal is to ensure you feel supported and heard, and we're committed to finding a resolution that feels right to you.

Let's be real: Beyond Jealousy is crafted to help individuals like you navigate the complexities of non-monogamy with confidence and clarity. The program is rich with insightful lessons, group discussions, somatic healing practices, and the backing of a compassionate community – all aimed at helping you find peace, confidence, and joy in your relationships.

Life is about exploring new paths and embracing growth, isn’t it? If you feel that Beyond Jealousy hasn’t met your expectations, despite your active participation and our best efforts, we don’t want you to feel let down. We believe in your right to seek out paths that resonate more closely with your needs.

So, if you find yourself feeling that Beyond Jealousy didn’t quite hit the mark for you, don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to work through it together. Our ultimate goal is for you to leave feeling positive, empowered, and confident in your journey towards overcoming jealousy.

Remember, you are valued, and your happiness is our ultimate goal. Take this step with us at Beyond Jealousy, and let's embark on a transformative journey towards a more joyful and fulfilling non-monogamous experience!

  • $1,200 or 3 monthly payments of $400

Beyond Jealousy

  • Starts May 27

Get out of your own way so you can experience love, inner peace, compersion, and security in your open relationships.

I’M SO EXCITED You're Here!

Hi! I’m Ellecia Paine, a sex, love, and relationship coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures. I want to help you build the relationships you’ve always wanted. 

I love helping adventurous people break the social conditioning of monogamy and learn how to navigate healthy alternative relationship styles such as ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory and swinging. I'll help you move through the challenges like jealousy, fear, anxiety, and insecurities in a way that strengthens your relationships, deepens trust and communication, and leaves you feeling confident and secure.

I believe in courageously challenging the status quo and empowering people to create relationships that work for the real people in those relationships. Throughout the past 9 years living in an ethically non-monogamous relationship while working as a sex, love, and relationship coach, I have acquired valuable insight and a unique ability to share this information with my clients and audience in a way that hits home while leaving them feeling validated and whole.