Ellecia has a deep well of lived experience that is invaluable for couples thinking of opening up their relationship. No matter what we brought to session, Ellecia totally got what was coming up for each of us and helped us understand each other's experiences on a deeper level. She also gave us simple, super-effective tools to help us build trust, better communicate, and to regulate our nervous systems when intense emotions arose. Finally, her light-hearted and joyous presence made it so we actually wanted to do the practices and show up for sessions! 

I learned to not push past my own boundaries, but to feel into what feels aligned for me. To slow down and to feel more comfortable in the uncertain. To recognize that there's not an end destination but relationships are fluid and to learn how to build safety in that fluidity. 

She taught me so much about myself. Reassured me when the whole world around me felt shaky. She helped me sit across from my husband and gaze into him for a long long time, and that was the most exquisite feeling. We found our way back to our center and Ellecia Paine was equally our guide, friend and coach. Please call her. It will improve your relationships.

I did relationship coaching with Ellecia Paine earlier this year.  It was amazing. She really helped me understand the origins of a lot of my negative thoughts around relationships and heal some deep wounds. The work  empowered me to love myself, know that I am enough, and step into the qualities that allowed me to pursue the meaningful romantic relationships that I’ve so deeply desired for so long. I cannot possibly recommend her highly enough to express my gratitude for the work she led me through ❤️

Ellecia is an incredibly talented, intuitive, and sincere coach. From start to finish, she challenged us to dig deep, connecting to and understanding our inner selves. Her uplifting, positive, and fun personality makes her easy to open up to, and the lessons and tools she uses have taken our communication to the next level. As a result, we are living the out of the box relationship of our dreams. Much love!

I worked with Ellecia as I was going through a difficult time of life, struggling to truly find my inner self as a Dominant Male in a way that was truly authentic to who and what I was. She was very warm and understanding, and really helped me weed through so much life programming I didn’t realize was impacting how I wanted to live my life. Through her exercises and talks, I was able to really dig deep within myself and reclaim my identity. While we as people are always a work in progress, I would never have been able to redefine what my energy would be without her assistance. Definitely recommend, on a scale of 1-10, she’s at least a 12!