Ellecia Paine Coaching/Getting It On In a Group - Intentional Threesomes, Fouresomes, & Moresomes
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Create beautiful group sex scenarios while maintaining healthy relationships.

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This program is designed to help you increase the pleasure you’re experiencing in the bedroom in your non-traditional relationships so that you can have the best orgasms of your life, feel fully at home and confident in bed with as many people as you desire, and spice up your bedroom life with new tricks that will blow your partner(s) mind and leave them coming back for more. 

Think of it like doing a month long retreat to get you really prepared for the experiences you want to have.  You’ll learn potent sexuality tools to expand your erotic connection and explore new ways of playing and communicating… all from the comfort of your own bedroom!

There are four Deep-Dive Q&A Live Sessions PLUS past Q&A sessions recorded where you will see the real answers to the questions other people like you have asked; How do I bring up group sex with my partner and potentials? How do I have sexy fun and stay safe? Where the heck do I meet people? 

Learn to create a comfortable container for multiple people, strengthen your connection, establish your boundaries, and learn high-level communication skills for keeping it sexy. 

Sounds like the exact course you could use right now? Then this is the program for you! 
Say no more, I'm In!!

THIS PROGRAM IS THE VERY FIRST OF IT'S KIND AND WILL TAKE YOUR SEX LIFE TO NEW DEPTHS WHERE YOU WILL:

Learn about creating intentional group sex scenarios that will blow your mind without blowing up your relationships.
Learn how to use high-level communication skills, create emotional safety, and learn how to negotiate getting everyone’s needs and desires met.
Learn how to get the party started, how to break the ice, and how to choreograph for maximum pleasure for everyone involved.
Learn  the ins and outs of group sexual safety, consent, and boundaries.
Ellecia Paine, non-monogamy expert

I’M SO EXCITED TO SHARE THIS COURSE WITH YOU!

Hi! I’m Ellecia Paine, a sex, love, and relationship coach specializing in ethical non-monogamy and alternative relationship structures. I want to help you build the relationships you’ve always wanted. 

One of the ways I’m doing that is by bringing you a course on creating intentional group sex. Be it your first time or fiftieth time, I’m going to show you how to bang multiple people without blowing up your relationships.

IN THIS UNIQUE AND POTENT COURSE YOU WILL EXPERIENCE:

A profoundly safe space to share, explore, and play together freely, authentically, and with NO judgment, ever.
High-level communication skills so you can avoid feeling awkward or stepping on toes and instead focus on profound pleasure.
Work sheets, videos, and more to help you know what topics you should be talking about and where your mindset can shift.
How about consent, negotiation, positions, safety, and finding partners? I’m going over this and more!

  • $169 or 2 monthly payments of $89

Let's Do It!!

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  • 33 Lessons

I want in!

GETTING IT ON IN A GROUP - INTENTIONAL, THREESOMES, FOURSOMES, AND MORESOMES

Your investment today is only $169 (normally $333) and gives you:

  • Unlimited access to 5 modules

  • Tons of transformational practices and worksheets 

  • Recorded Q&A calls with Ellecia

  • Private course member community 

  • Brand New Course Content!


Frequently asked questions

You’ve got questions. We’ve got answers.

DO I NEED A PARTNER TO ATTEND?

Nope! This course can be done by yourself, with a partner, or with multiple partners.

WHO IS THIS COURSE FOR?


This is for you if you’re trying to bring up a threesome or other group sexy time in your relationship, but your partner is unsure. This program will give you the foundation you need to create open communication on the topic. 


This program is for you if you’ve been in an open relationship, a swinging relationship, polyamorous relationship, or have been exploring ethical non-monogamy for some time, but are starting to see some cracks in your partners and relationships that ae creating stress/tension/fights/insecurity/comparison/etc.


As long as you are over 18.  If you are here reading this then you’re probably at least curious about group sex. Even if you aren’t sure you will ever jump in with both feet, you’ll probably find some skills that will serve you in many areas of life. I teach from the lived experience of a queer, cis woman in a hetero polyamorous and open marriage and I welcome all genders, orientations, and relationship styles.

DO I NEED TO BE ON ALL THE LIVE CALLS?

Nope! We will record all the calls and they will be available in your course content to view at any time. 
Of course, you will get the most out of the course if you are there to ask YOUR questions, but if you can't make a call, you can always ask your questions at the next one.

Will I be recorded?

You will have options!  If you want to keep your camera off, you will not be recorded at all. You can also ask questions in the chat so that you don't even have to talk.

Contents

Module One - Welcome!!

I'm Ellecia Paine. I'm a sex, love, and relationship coach and your guide for Getting it on In a Group. 

Thank you so much for joining me. My hope is that we can create this together, just as we would in an intentional group sex situation. 
I'll start by laying out what you can expect for our time together. For the next four weeks we will have a new module each week. New content will be released here in the member area by 10am pacific every Saturday. 

You'll find a video and some worksheets each week. You will also have access to the member area and this content for life. Take it fast, take it slow, your pace is exactly perfect! 

Some of these are meant to help you get really clear on your desires and some are meant to help you move through any conditioning that you might carry around group sex, non-monogamy, sluttiness. And some are meant to help you get clear on your partners desires. I would recommend digging deep into these, sharing your answers, and creating a safe space to share with your partner/s and potential  partners.

I would urge you to really dig in to all of the mindset work I include in the worksheets, this is going to be the most impactful part of the course. 

Be sure to watch the replays of past Q&A calls (they'll be posted in the member area) you will get so much value from these. And Join us for the live Q&A calls scheduled. You'll find the schedule and link in your course.

Let's do this!

ELLECIA

Module One - Why do you want to have group sex?
What is your North Star?
Module One - Yes, No, Maybe?
Consent Tea Video
Q&A Call 2/21/23
Q&A Call 2/17/21
Q&A Call 10/18/21

Module Two - Who's Scared?

This week we will be talking about fears and what holds you back. And though we're talking about group sex here, this work can really translate to so many other areas of life, sexuality, relationships, and the way we move in the world.
Module Two Video Lesson
Module Two Workbook
How to ask for consent every step of the way.
Q&A Call 2/28/23
Q&A Call 2/24/21

Module Three - Let's talk about sexual safety

Last week, we talked all about fears and, for many of you, STIs and sexual safety were pretty high on the list. Knowledge is power in this area. The more you know, the more you can prevent.


Module Three Video Lesson
S.P.I.E.L.
S.P.I.E.L. Worksheet
STI Testing
Herpes Simplex Virus types 1 &2 (HSV) FAQ
The more the merrier, but bring on the barriers!
Consent in group situations
Q&A Call 3/7/23
Q&A Call 3-3-21
Q&A Call 11/8/21
Midpoint Survey

Module 4 - Group sex choreography!

LET'S TALK ABOUT WHAT GOES IN WHAT, WHO'S SITTING ON FACES, AND WHO'S SITTING ON DICKS. 

We have a pretty wide variety of desires and experiences you all are looking for. Everything from cuddle parties or  intimate threesomes, to orgies and gang bangs, so I'll be giving some general info that applies to most, if not all, of these.
Module Four Video Lesson
A Note on Unicorns
Gig Module 4 Q&A 3/14/23
Q&A Call 3/7/21

Module Five - Throwing your own play parties?

Hey everyone, and welcome to this class on hosting a play party! I'm so excited to be here and talk about all the things that go into planning and hosting an amazing event. Let's get to it!

Who, What, When, Where, Why, but not in that order 😁
Supplies!!
GIG Play Party Format.pdf
Q&A Call Module 5 3/21/23
Ellecia's Favorite Sexy Brands
GIG Final Survey